CHEATINGS IN KENYA

 

What is cheating?

Cheating is the act of being unfaithful to a spouse or other partner. Typically cheating means engaging in sexual or romantic relations with a person other than one's significant other, breaking a commitment or promise in the act.

Types of cheating

• Physical cheating. 
• Having sexual fantasies about someone else. 
• Having romantic feelings about someone else. 
• Secret spending. 
• Secret social media activity.

Definition of cheating on a person

Cheating on a person is to break a promise made to (someone, such as one's wife or husband) by having sex with someone else. For example, he cheated on his wife/girlfriend.

What is considered cheating in a relationship?

cheating is the act of being unfaithful to a spouse or other partner. Hence, it means engaging in sexual or romantic relations with a person other than one's significant other, breaking a commitment or promise in the act.

How Kenyan men waste on Mipango

Cheating is the fastest-growing business in town besides alcohol and church businesses.

The most trading clip on the internet is a clip doing rounds on Facebook, where a woman is seen embarrassing her husband for being unfaithful. 

The woman is seen throwing a tantrum, announcing to all and miscellaneous that her husband is not only unfaithful but irresponsible. She parrots how despite denying her money for her new hairstyle, she found lodging receipts. In his shirt pocket during laundry, an indication that he has been up to no good, even as he claimed to be broke.

Clyde Angira, an accountant with an audit firm, says the ‘infidelity industry’ thrives countrywide, and “the biggest beneficiaries are hotels, bar and restaurant owners and taxi drivers.”Nairobi’s Hurligham estate manager says business was so good, she stopped charging hotel rooms per day, but instead charges per hour.

“My clients don’t stay the whole night. These are married men and women who want to go back to their offices or homes. I even have repeat clients who call to book in advance. It makes me mad when I have to turn some away because rooms are fully booked,” she says. 

Kenyan men have that habit of cheating, especially married ones. The breaking news is that the ratio is one man and seven women. This issue of Mpango wa Kando has brought up a lot of things like contracting HIV and other STIs. This issue has also caused a lot of divorces. Also, they are an increased rate of single parenting since cheating has become so pampered in Kenya. Some Kenyan men are serial cheaters. A serial cheater is a person who cheats not only once, but multiple times within a relationship, across relationships, or both, said.

Signs of cheating

Signs of cheating may include;

• Changes in communication.
• Increased interest in appearance.
• More time spent away from home.
• Attitude changes.
• Lying.
• Avoidance.
• They accuse you of cheating.
• Indifference.

How to detect a Cheating partner

• Altered Schedule. 
• Uncomfortable Friends. 
• Inconsistent Expenses. 
• False Accusations of Cheating.

Common signs of Cheating

• Improved appearance. 
• Secretive phone or computer use.
• Periods where your significant other is unreachable. 
• Significantly less, or more, or different sex in your relationship. 
• Your partner is hostile toward you and your relationship. 
• An altered schedule.
• Being moody.

How a cheating partner behaves

Some of the cheater's behavior includes; They are impulsive, and can't resist taking that risks despite what it might cost them. They, like bullies, are fueled by power, and drawn to risk. 

How to know whether your partner is loyal to you

He/ She puts more effort to make the relationship work and never takes you for granted.  If you have an argument, he/she tries to address the problem and ensure you don't fight on the same issue again. He or She is genuinely interested in understanding you better as a person and embracing you the way you are.

How do you know whether your partner has lost interest in you?

1. His or Her Phone calls and texts steadily decrease. 
2. His or Her Quality of time together has started to dwindle.
3. His or HerIntimacy has become scarce. 
4. Things become increasingly on one side.
5. She or He dodges questions about your status or where it is going.

Factors preventing cheating

•  concern guilt.
•  fear of a partner's reaction.
• social stigma.
• Fear to lose a partner. 

Guilty Signs of cheating

• He or she becomes Self-loathing. 
• He or she suddenly starts paying more attention to you.
• He or she tries to manipulate you. 
• He or she is suddenly emotionally detached from you. 
• His or her intimacy suddenly went out the door. 
• He or she suddenly pays more attention to their looks.

Guilty Cheaters not only do they apologize, and often, but they also openly express what they're apologizing for. They don't make vague statements or blanket apologies. They show their remorse by doing things that they feel will lessen their pain. It's about both words and